Chapter 14: Becoming Love: Living as a Way of Life
Abstract : "Becoming Love: Living as a Way of Life" is a philosophical and practical approach to life that emphasizes shifting from seeking love externally to embodying it as a natural, default state of being . This concept, explored by various authors and spiritual teachers, involves intentional actions and a mindset shift that can transform personal relationships, improve well-being, and positively impact the world. Key Principles of Living as a Way of Life Love as a Choice, Not a Feeling: Rather than waiting for a romantic feeling, this approach treats love as a deliberate, daily decision to act with kindness, patience, and compassion, even toward difficult people. Seven Keys (per Dr. Gary Chapman): Author Dr. Gary Chapman outlines7 traits to cultivate this lifestyle: Kindness, Patience, Forgiveness, Courtesy, Humility, Generosity, and Honesty. Shifting from Self-Absorption: A central component is moving away from self-interest and, instead,...