Rakshabandhan: Why and How It's Celebrated ? Explore History, Rituals and Traditions of Eternal Relationship between Brother and Sister !!


Abstract : 

A great deal of importance has been given to relationships in India. One of the most sacred relationships is that of a brother and sister. It is one of those few relationships where the bond rises beyond mere arrangements for mutual benefits. The bond between a brother and sister is that of truth, sanctity, and unconditional love.

Rakshabandhan is a popular festival celebrated across the country. Irrespective of caste and creed people from all walks of life participate in this festival. It is celebrated on the full moon day of the lunar month Shravana (Shravana Poornima) which also coincides with Upa-karma.

The festival is also called as Rakhi Poornima, Nariyal Poornima and Kajari Poornima in different states and is celebrated differently.

Keywords
Rakshabandhan, Rakhi, Eternal Relationship between Brother and Sister, Affection, Pledge for Protection, 

Learning Outcomes
After undergoing this article you will be able to understand the following 
1. What's Rakshabandhan
2. Why Rakshabandhan is celebrated?
3. What's the history behind the Rakshabandhan?
4. How Rakshabandhan is celebrated?
5. Best Good wishes for Rakshabandhan
6. Conclusions
7. FAQs
References

1. What's Rakshabandhan?
Raksha Bandhan is a festival which celebrates the bond of a brother and sister. This festival is celebrated in the Hindu religion. It is one of their most important festivals. In addition, sisters and brothers wait eagerly for it all round the year. People celebrate it with abundant zeal and enthusiasm in India.

2. Why Rakshabandhan is celebrated?
Relationships are considered very sacred since the Vedic era in India. They are a very important part of our life and form a fundamental basis for it. Our lives are very much determined by the kind of relationship we have with people. Relationships aren't just some arrangement, they are existential realities that effect us at every stage of life.

As we all know, siblings carry a special place in our hearts. However, the particular bond of a brother and sister is very unique. The care they have for each other knows no bounds. The love they share is beyond compare.

No matter how much they fight with one another, they always stand behind them in support. Brothers and sisters fight with each other over trivial matters. In other words, they share a bond which is full of teasing and love.

Brothers and sisters help us grow. At every stage of our lives, the bond between them grows stronger. They stand with each other through thick and thin. The elder brothers are very protective of their sisters. Similarly, elder sisters care a lot for their younger brothers. The younger ones look up to their elder siblings.

Raksha Bandhan is all about celebrating this bond. It is a symbolism of the unique and special relationship shared by the two. This day has been rightly recognized to have a good time and focus on this beautiful bond. It serves as a symbol of their love, togetherness, and confidence in each other.

3. What's the history behind the Rakshabandhan?

Significance of Rakhi: Raksha Bandhan is celebrated on the last Purnima of Hindu month Shravan, also known as Rakhi Purnima. Raksha Bandhan literally means a bond of protection. Sisters tie an amulet on the wrist of their brother's hand known as Rakhi. This amulet is to mark the sacred relationship of a brother and sister. Sisters bestow their love on brothers and in return receive gifts and a promise for protection.

This festival has immense significance as far as Indian tradition and culture is concerned. Traditionally, this festival meant much more for the villages that followed strict exogamy. Such villages are still found in northern India. Parents don't visit the houses of their daughters who are generally married in other villages. Daughters also don't get chances to visit their paternal home.

They usually visit their paternal home a few days or weeks before Rakhi and stayed till that day. Brothers generally stayed with their parents, and if not, they also visited their parent's home on this occasion. Brothers acted as a string between the daughter's family and their family. But in modern society, these things are almost obsolete, and now this festival is more symbolic than relevant.

Legends behind Rakhi festival: As true with any other Hindu festival, the celebration of Raksha Bandhan also finds its origin in multiple accounts of ancient texts. Some of which are:

Krishna and Draupadi: This is the most popular legend behind rakhi and is mentioned in the great ancient epic, Mahabharata. Krishna accidentally hurt his finger with the Sudarshan Chakra. As a result, it started bleeding. Seeing this, Draupadi, the wife of Pandavas wasted no time and tore the corner of her Saari, and tied it to Krishna's finger. Touched by the love and purity of Draupadi's affection, Krishna granted her the promise of protection. Since that day, Rakhi is celebrated as a promise of protection by the brother to her sister.

Indra Dev and Sachi: This story is mentioned in Bhavishya Purana. A great battle was going on between the Devas and Asuras. Demon king Bali was giving a tough fight to Indra, who was leading the gods. Seeing all the odds against them, Indra's wife Sachi went to Lord Vishnu and asked him for help. He gave her an amulet which she tied to her husband's wrist. After that, Indra defeated the demons and successfully recovered his kingdom. In earlier times, women used to tie amulets to the hands of their husbands who went to war. However, now the amulets are tied by sisters instead of wives.

There is one more popular story mentioned in Bhagavad Purana. As per the story, lord Vishnu was asked by the demon King Bali to stay with him in the palace after He showed him his immense form. However, goddess Lakshmi wanted to return to Vaikuntha. So, She tied an amulet to king Bali and when asked for a gift in return, She asked Bali to release Vishnu from his palace.

Evolution of festival: Rakhi holds a very different meaning today than what it originally meant. Originally, Raksha Bandhan was a very auspicious festival having spiritual significance as well. On this day, the family pundits tied an amulet, on the wrists of family members, which were generally prepared using cotton or silk threads. This tradition is also mentioned in Bhavishya Purana.

In this Purana, Krishna reveals to Yudhishthira the significance of this day. He also explains to him the procedure to carry out this day in detail. So, this festival dates back to ancient India and isn't a new addition to the culture.

However, the way it is celebrated has changed significantly over time. Slowly from becoming a religious ritual, it became a symbol of love and protection. Sisters took over the position of priests and started tying the amulets to their brothers. As mentioned earlier, this festival held immense prominence for daughters as they could visit their paternal homes.

Slowly that tradition is also coming to an end. Movies and pop culture has greatly influenced the way rakhi is perceived and celebrated today. It has almost lost its spiritual significance completely. People have devised new ways to celebrate rakhi and have also used the festival as a means to accomplish various interests.

4. How Rakshabandhan is celebrated?
A great deal of importance has been given to relationships in India. One of the most sacred relationships is that of a brother and sister. It is one of those few relationships where the bond rises beyond mere arrangements for mutual benefits. The bond between a brother and sister is that of truth, sanctity, and unconditional love.

To celebrate the beauty and significance of this relationship, a whole festival is dedicated in India. This festival is known as Raksha Bandhan, or simply Rakhi. This is one of the widest celebrated festivals in India. You will find almost everyone with wrist full of Rakhis on this day. Let us look at this beautiful festival in a little more depth.

How to celebrate Raksha Bandhan?

The rituals are performed as follows during Rakshabandhan 

1. On the occasion of this festival sisters generally apply tilak to the forehead of their brothers, 

2. Tie the sacred thread called Rakhi to the wrist of their brothers 

3. Do arati and pray for their good health & long life. 

This thread, which represents love and sublime sentiments, is called the ‘Raksha Bandhan’  means ‘a bond of protection’.

The brother in return offers a gift to his sister and vows to look after her.  

Before tying a Rakhi on their brothers hand the sisters first tie a Rakhi on the Tulasi plant and the another Rakhi on the peepal tree asking for the protection of nature – Vriksha Raksha Bandhan.

5. Best Good wishes for Rakshabandhan

From Sister to Brother 

“From fighting over toys to sharing secrets, I love you always! Happy Raksha Bandhan! 

Dear bro, I love you to the moon and back. You may annoy me a lot, but I'd rather it be you than anyone else. Happy Raksha Bandhan.

Thanks for being such a wonderful brother. You were always my best friend, looking out for me and guiding me. Happy Rakhi, bhai.

रंग बिरंगी राखी बांधी
फिर रोली से लगाया तिलक
बांधी राखी और खिलाई मिठाई
हमेशा खुश रहना मेरे भाई
Happy Raksha Bandhan 2024

From Brother to Sister 

Dear sister, you were there for me in the bad times and the good times. Thank you for being the best. Happy Raksha Bandhan.

You irritate me, make me laugh, love me unconditionally, and always pamper me. I feel so lucky to have you in my life. Happy Raksha Bandhan.

I have the loveliest and sweetest sister in this world. Thanks for being the best and coolest one! Happy Raksha Bandhan.

Sister, you have always been my role model since the beginning. May our bond grow stronger with each passing year. Happy Raksha Bandhan.

“Sisters like you make life bright. Happy Raksha Bandhan!

General Common 

Wishing all brothers and sisters a joyful and blessed Raksha Bandhan. Let's treasure this special bond always!” 

“Wishing all brothers and sisters a joyous and blessed Raksha Bandhan. Let's cherish this special bond forever!”

धागो से बांधा है अपने दिल का अहसास
हमेशा बना रहे मेरा और आपका साथ
हैप्पी रक्षाबंधन 2024

लड़ना, झगड़ना मना लेना यही है भाई-बहन का प्यार
इसे बढ़ाने के लिए हर साल बहन खुशी के साथ मनाती है
राखी का त्योहार
Happy Raksha Bandhan 2024

6. Conclusions
Rakhi is a festival of immense prominence. The auspicious relationship of a brother and sister is reaffirmed on this day with a seal of love and purity. It is not a mere exchange of words and gifts. It is an exchange of the feeling of love, of the promise of protection, and the bond of purity.

  7. FAQs

Q. How do people celebrate Raksha Bandhan?

Ans.

Raksha Bandhan is celebrated by tying a sacred thread called a rakhi on the brother’s wrist. Brother’s, in return, shower their sisters with gifts and pledge to protect them for all their life.

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