What's Love - Positive or Negative Way !

What's a Love?

Love is a complex emotion that can be both incredibly positive, bringing feelings of happiness, connection, and support, but also negative when expressed in unhealthy ways like possessiveness, manipulation, or codependency, leading to pain, jealousy, and a loss of self in a relationship; essentially, it's a powerful force that can nurture and uplift, but if not balanced, can also become destructive. 

Positive aspects of love:

• Joy and happiness: Feeling deep contentment and pleasure in the presence of a loved one. 
• Intimacy and connection: Sharing a deep emotional bond and understanding with someone. 
• Support and encouragement: Being there for someone through thick and thin, offering encouragement and motivation. 
• Trust and loyalty: Having faith in someone and feeling secure in the relationship. 
• Compassion and empathy: Caring about someone's well-being and understanding their perspective. 

Negative aspects of love:

• Obsessiveness and possessiveness:

  Wanting to control a partner's actions and feeling threatened by their independence. 
• Jealousy and insecurity:

  Feeling threatened by others and experiencing negative emotions when a partner interacts with them. 
• Codependency:

  Relying excessively on a partner for happiness and self-worth, neglecting personal needs. 
• Manipulation and abuse:

  Using love as a tool to control or harm someone emotionally or physically. 
• Unrealistic expectations:

  Putting pressure on a partner to fulfill an idealized version of love, leading to disappointment. 

• Best Love: It's the kind that we could ‘yin and yang 's or other half kind'a couples. The 'made for each other' types. This love feels like it just has to be and everything seems so perfect and fulfilled in life when you are with you partner. It like you are with the best person from the entire world. In this case the world seems to be perfect.

• Great Love: This is more of a grandiose kinda thing. It's emmence. Sometimes too much to handle. It lets you free and allows you to wander life the way you want with your partner right beside you, supporting you. You'll feel like you can achieve anything in the world and that nothing's impossible or beyond your reach. That “King of the world” feeling, this is it. In this case, you feel like you can MAKE the world perfect for you and your partner.

• True Love: The rarest considered, but more frequently present than anticipated; This love is unconditional. So unconditional that you don't even make it mandatory to be together with your partner. It's completely based on trust and understanding where one is free to make the choice and the other isn't necessarily obligated to pick the same. Yet one may tend to willing scarifice anything for the other's good. Even the physical intimacy is not needed. The only string that keeps the two souls (souls, not the body, neither the persons. Souls) connected is care for the other. It's strong enough to change the person drastically (positively and negatively). All the crazy stuff comes under this one. In this case, you don't need to world to be prefect. All you want the happiness of your partner. With or without you.

Conclusions:

Love, as an emotion, can be positive and supportive. It may even lower your blood pressure. However, your actions when you love someone may be unhealthy. If you love someone so much that it leads you to neglect your own needs or causes other issues, it could become problematic.