Painful Tears: The Heart can't Say! Do you Feel - Expression of Love, Fear, Togetherness, Loneliness...?

Abstract:

The most #painful #tears are not the ones that fall from your eyes and cover your face, it's the ones that fall from your heart and cover your #soul. GOD are you really here and do you see my tears? 

Keywords

Pain, Tears, Psychological, Behaviour, #Interpersonal relationships, Soul 

Painful Tears : An explanation 

We all cry. It is one of the first behaviors we express as infants to get someone to notice us by attending to our needs and offering comfort. Certainly, crying often happens when we feel physical pain. Beyond infancy, we may cry out of frustration when we are either incapable or prevented from getting what we want—as in the case of a child who wants to eat more cookies, but who can’t reach the cookie jar, or whose parent takes away the bag of cookies.

As we #grow older, we cry for other reasons, which encompass both negative and positive experiences. With increasing age, we start to develop interpersonal relationships and derive feelings generated from them. Our #interactions with others impact how we feel in general, and more specifically about ourselves.

Interpersonal relationships have the effect of producing crying #behavior when there is a loss related to that relationship; for instance, the death of a loved one, a divorce, or a break-up. Crying is a behavioral response to sadness, as well as other possible #emotions, such as #loneliness, #rejection, or #abandonment.

Types of Tears

Humans produce three types of tears:

• Basal: The tear ducts constantly secrete basal tears, which are a protein-rich antibacterial liquid that help to keep the eyes moist every time a #person blinks.
• Reflex: These are tears triggered by irritants such as wind, smoke, or onions. They are released to flush out these irritants and protect the #eye.
• Emotional: Humans shed tears in response to a range of emotions. These tears contain a higher level of stress hormones than other types of tears.

 Health benefits of crying.

• Detoxifies the #body. There are three different types of tears: ...
• Helps self-soothe. Crying may be one of your best mechanisms to self-soothe. 
• Dulls pain. 
• Improves mood. ...
• Rallies support. ...
• Helps you recover from grief. ...
• Restores emotional balance. ...
• Helps baby breathe.

Painful tears are words the heart can’t #say 

Tears are painful when

they fall from your heart

and cover your soul.

Here is a poem on Painful Tears!

I come when pain

Becomes too much to take.

I come when you're sad,

Or your heart starts to break.

I might come when you panic,

I might come when you're mad.

I'll show up here and there,

When enough is what you've had.

I'm salty and warm,

I might be big or small.

Sometimes when you're strong,

I don't come up at all.

I fill your eyes with moisture,

I roll down your cheek.

Sometimes I mean joyous,

Sometimes I mean weak.

Sometimes when you're scared,

I come as a sign of fear.

You can feel when I'm coming,

Whether far or near.

I may come along

When you hear your favorite #song.

Sometimes I show up

When you've been strong for too long.

I know you want to fly away.

I know inside you're a mess.

You long for a brighter day.

Tears are words the heart can't express.

Quotes of Painful Tears

Don't be ashamed to weep; 'tis right to grieve. 

Tears are only water, and flowers, trees, and fruit cannot grow without water. But there must be sunlight also. 

A wounded #heart will heal in time, and when it does, the memory and love of our lost ones is sealed inside to comfort us.

Tears are prayers too. They travel to God when we can’t speak .

Silent Tears Hold The Loudest Pain

Conclusions 

Tears in the eyes is not always painful but tears in the heart is always painful. Even the tears in my eyes never made me cry. Not everyone is great enough to bring tears in your eyes, in and out of joy. Tears unshed are not tears avoided; they are tears that carve hidden rivers of #sorrow within.”