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Chapter 14: Becoming Love: Living as a Way of Life

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : "Becoming Love: Living as a Way of Life" is  a philosophical and practical approach to life that emphasizes shifting from seeking love externally to embodying it as a natural, default state of being . This concept, explored by various authors and spiritual teachers, involves intentional actions and a mindset shift that can transform personal relationships, improve well-being, and positively impact the world.   Key Principles of Living as a Way of Life Love as a Choice, Not a Feeling:  Rather than waiting for a romantic feeling, this approach treats love as a deliberate, daily decision to act with kindness, patience, and compassion, even toward difficult people. Seven Keys (per Dr. Gary Chapman):  Author Dr. Gary Chapman outlines7 traits to cultivate this lifestyle: Kindness, Patience, Forgiveness, Courtesy, Humility, Generosity, and Honesty. Shifting from Self-Absorption:  A central component is moving away from self-interest and, instead,...
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Chapter 13: Practicing Love Daily

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : Practicing love daily  involves intentional actions rather than just feelings, focusing on small, consistent gestures like gratitude, active listening, and patience . Daily habits include setting loving intentions upon waking, offering kindness, and nurturing self-love through affirmations and self-care, creating a "bank account" of connection.   Daily Practices for Loving Others Small Gestures:  Consistently perform small, thoughtful actions like making coffee, leaving encouraging notes, or sending a thinking-of-you text. Active Listening & Presence:  Pay attention to a partner’s "bids" for connection—small requests for attention—and respond with care. Patience and Kindness:  Choose patience during stressful moments, such as traffic or dealing with children, rather than frustration. Gratitude:  Express appreciation for small things daily, which strengthens connections. Active Affection:  Consciously offer physica...
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Chapter 12: Love, Spirituality, and Inner Growth

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : Love is the central, driving force for spiritual growth , transforming personal consciousness from ego-driven, conditional perspectives to an unconditional, compassionate, and unified state of being. It acts as the ultimate tool for inner growth by fostering compassion, empathy, and service, which helps individuals move beyond fear and connect with their true, divine nature.   Key Aspects of Love, Spirituality, and Growth: Unconditional Love as a Tool:  Love serves as the primary tool for spiritual transformation, encouraging the release of selfishness and fostering a deeper connection to the divine. Spiritual Growth Defined:  It is the process of becoming aware of oneself as a soul, leading to greater inner peace, compassion, and a shift away from fear-based ego. Ethical Living as a Foundation:  Growth in love is expressed through ethical, compassionate, and service-oriented living. Spiritual Partnerships:  Relationships can function as p...
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Chapter 11: Loving in an Imperfect World

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : Loving in an imperfect world involves  embracing flaws in oneself and others to foster genuine connection, shifting focus from idealistic perfection to compassionate acceptance . It requires self-care, acknowledging that accepting personal imperfections allows for healthier relationships, as highlighted by authors like Haemin Sunim. This perspective emphasizes that true love thrives by accepting flaws rather than demanding perfection.   Key insights on loving in an imperfect world: Embrace Imperfection:  Perfection does not exist, and attempting to find it is futile; instead, loving the flawed nature of people and the world brings true beauty and peace. Self-Acceptance First:  Just as on airplanes, one must apply their own "oxygen mask" first—meaning self-care and self-acceptance are necessary prerequisites for loving others properly. The Power of Acceptance:  When you stop trying to fix everyone or everything, you create a space for real,...
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Chapter 10: Love, Work, and Service : Healthy Love, Healthy Lifestyle

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : Love, work, and service are  deeply interconnected pillars of a meaningful life, often described as "love in action" . Merging these concepts means finding joy by serving others through your professional efforts, which shifts work from a burden to a purposeful contribution. It involves passionate, empathetic, and dedicated action to add value.   Love in Work :  Loving your work involves earning success while serving others, finding significance in daily tasks, and understanding how your role improves lives. It requires passion for what you do and care for those you serve. Work as Service :  Viewing work as service transforms one's attitude, allowing for a deeper connection to the community and a, broader sense of purpose. It means bringing empathy, care, and a "customer service" mindset to any role. Service as Action :  Service is described as "love in action" or "love in work clothes," where dedication, sac...
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Chapter 9: Love as a Moral and Ethical Force

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Abstract : Love is increasingly understood not merely as a fleeting, intense emotion, but as a robust moral and ethical force— a deliberate, active commitment to the well-being of others . It serves as a foundational principle for ethical behavior, transforming how individuals interact with the world by grounding actions in empathy, care, and responsibility rather than just abstract rules.   Love as a Moral Duty (Agape) Active Choice vs. Emotion:  While love can be a spontaneous feeling, its moral power lies in its volitional nature. It is a conscious commitment to act lovingly, even when the emotion is absent. Christian and Philosophical Foundations:  Often articulated as  Agape  (unconditional love) or  Caritas  (charity), this perspective views love as a command to seek the good of others, including enemies. Kantian "Practical Love":  Immanuel Kant distinguished between "pathological love" (inclination) and "practical love" (duty). ...
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Chapter 8: Love as Meaning in Life : Deep Insights

Prof.(Dr.) D G Mahto, Founder & CEO -
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Abstract : Love provides profound meaning in life by  fostering deep connections, care, and purpose, acting as a vital force that sustains human existence . It manifests as romantic, familial, or friendship bonds, offering security, belonging, and a way to navigate life's challenges through empathy and, ultimately, self-transcendence.   Key Aspects of Love as Meaning in Life: Purpose and Connection:  Love connects people, offering a sense of belonging and reducing feelings of isolation. It is seen as a "glue" that keeps people together, providing comfort and support in times of hardship. Self-Transcendence:  Love often involves putting someone else's needs above one's own, which can provide a sense of purpose that goes beyond selfish desires. It is described as a "key" that can open the door to a more fulfilling life. A "Doing" Verb:  Love is frequently expressed through actions rather than just feelings, such as caring for others, ...
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